Ending relationships with dignity and respect

Katherine Woodward Thomas and her Happily Even After Family. Photo by Kim Fox

Conscious Uncoupling™ Coaching

What do you do when the end of a marriage collapses your world?
This was me, with two young children at the time. And a panoply of emotions. Afraid of what might happen, but unwilling to stay stuck in an unhappy marriage.

I needed to get back on my feet again so that my children and I could live a good life. I don’t wish this scenario on anyone. It was the hardest thing I ever did in my life.

The lessons I learned, and the ways I had to transform my beliefs and my life became the foundation for my happy and fulfilling life today.

I learned that I really could go on, that I could take care of myself and my children. I learned that I could learn how to work with their father to create a life that allowed them to grow and develop to their full potential. And most importantly, I learned that I could graduate from my ineffective patterns in love that had me accepting relationships that didn’t support me.

I learned how to seek and cultivate healthy happy love in my life. Learning to turn your trauma into triumph is the miraculous journey of Conscious Uncoupling.

The Conscious Uncoupling™ Coaching Process is:

  • A 5-Step process for ending a romantic union in honorable, gracious, and respectful ways
  • A road map for how to break up in a way that does minimal damage to all involved
  • A clear guide for creating new cooperative and life-affirming agreements and structures that set everyone up to win moving forward

It only takes one to have a Conscious Uncoupling™ – to recover your ability to live a happy loving and fulfilling life. In today’s rapidly changing society, most people will have more than one significant relationship in their adult lives. We need to find ways to do this in ways that are not disruptive to the safety, growth and development all involved. In my coaching I share with others the principles and practices for living “happily even after”.

I am a certified as a “Calling in ”The One”™ and Conscious Uncoupling™ coach to use these results-producing processes with clients.
Calling in “The One”™ and Conscious Uncoupling™ were created and are owned by New York Times Best Selling Author, Katherine Woodward Thomas.

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Ending Relationships with Dignity and Respect

Katherine Woodward Thomas and her happily Even After Family. Photo by Kim Fox

Conscious Uncoupling™ 
Coaching

What do you do when the end of a marriage collapses your world?
This was me, with two young children at the time. And a panoply of emotions. Afraid of what might happen, but unwilling to stay stuck in an unhappy marriage.

I needed to get back on my feet again so that my children and I could live a good life. I don’t wish this scenario on anyone. It was the hardest thing I ever did in my life.

 

The lessons I learned, and the ways I had to transform my beliefs and my life became the foundation for my happy and fulfilling life today.

I learned that I really could go on, that I could take care of myself and my children. I learned that I could learn how to work with their father to create a life that allowed them to grow and develop to their full potential. And most importantly, I learned that I could graduate from my ineffective patterns in love that had me accepting relationships that didn’t support me.

I learned how to seek and cultivate healthy happy love in my life. Learning to turn your trauma into triumph is the miraculous journey of Conscious Uncoupling.

The Conscious Uncoupling™ Coaching Process is:

  • A 5-Step process for ending a romantic union in honorable, gracious, and respectful ways
  • A road map for how to break up in a way that does minimal damage to all involved
  • A clear guide for creating new cooperative and life-affirming agreements and structures that set everyone up to win moving forward

It only takes one to have a Conscious Uncoupling™ – to recover your ability to live a happy loving and fulfilling life. In today’s rapidly changing society, most people will have more than one significant relationship in their adult lives. We need to find ways to do this in ways that are not disruptive to the safety, growth and development all involved. In my coaching I share with others the principles and practices for living “happily even after”.

I am a certified “Calling in ”The One”™ Coach. Calling in “The One”™ and Conscious Uncoupling™ coaching processes were created and are owned by New York Times Best Selling author, Katherine Woodward Thomas.

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Marc and I have been together for six years – since I was sixty.
We have been married for four years.
We bought our place in Florida shortly after we were married.

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“Good-looking guys come a dime a dozen / Try to find you one who’s gonna give you true lovin’ / Before you take a man and say I do, now / Make sure he’s in love with you, now / My mama told me / You better shop around / You better shop around …”

– From “Shop Around” version recorded by Captain & Tennille

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Working with Joan helped me get clear about what I wanted in a relationship. She really helped me to focus and get present to what I want and deserve in a partnership.

Recently divorced mother of a teenage son

READ MORE

Conscious Uncoupling™

My emotions were raw at the end of my marriage and old fears, like fear of abandonment, were triggered. I wanted to minimize the pain for my daughters. This coaching helped me clarify and execute on those intentions and gave me a safe place to process and share the painful emotions.

Mother of two young adult daughters

READ MORE

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While the divorce year was painful, I’m convinced that this support helped me get through it more collaboratively and allowed me to heal, forgive and start my next chapter more quickly.

Mother of two young adult daughters

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My ex and I are able to stay in touch, collaborate on ongoing projects and parent our children as partners. We spared each other much of the acrimony I hear from others I know who are divorced and who experience lingering negativity and resentment.

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