Creating Happy Healthy love
in your life

Creating Happy Healthy love in your life

Calling in “the one”™ Coaching

Are you longing for love — the comfort of someone you can come home to, someone with whom you can be yourself fully, someone is on your side no matter what —  someone who actually loves you exactly the way you are?

What are your patterns in love?

Are you overly giving to the point of not having your own needs met?

  • Are you always the one who is making the relationship work, while your partner does not step forward to demonstrate the level of commitment that you need to feel happy and secure?
  • Do you find yourself picking the same kinds of people, even though they might look different at first?

This is totally possible!

Calling in “The One”™ helped me uncover and unwind the false beliefs and unproductive actions that perpetuate unfulfilling patterns in love.

This powerful approach will support you to identify and move past blocks that are keeping you from the intimate supportive relationship you desire.

Imagine yourself coming home to a partner who appreciates you in all your glory (and who has patience with you in all of your less-than-glory.)

I did just that when I was 58 years. I had recently ended a marriage and I knew that I did not want to live alone for the rest of my life.

But I was very nervous to start dating again. I had never done any online-dating.

I believed that my “picker” was broken: that I did not know how to choose men who were good for me for the long run.

So… I sought out the best coach I knew – Katherine Woodward Thomas, family therapist and author of the New York Times bestseller, Calling in “The One.”™

I became a dedicated student of learning about the patterns that keep us in unfulfilling relationships. And even better — I learned a process that brought me out the other side to claim a new identity for myself in love: I am capable and worthy of great love in my life and I can find a man who extends himself to others as much as I do.

 

Wow that was a game-changer!

Was the process magic? Did it happen overnight?  

No.

Over the course of two years I met and talked with 40 men in my area, in my age group.

Having a great coach to support me through this gave me the courage and strength I needed to keep going towards my intention of having a wonderful loving man in my life – even when I was disappointed over and over again in the dating game.

I did meet a wonderful man by my 60th birthday.

Marc and I married when we were sixty two. And now we are living happily ever after.

Really!

You can see more about this in About Joan.

My coaching supports you to learn how to get the love you deserve.

Get past all obstacles to finding the relationship of your dreams.

What to Expect


The Calling in “the One”™
8-week coaching program

This program will support you to identify and move past the blocks that are keeping you from the intimate supportive relationship you desire.

 

Step One: Preparing for Love

In Step One, you will create your Intention for happy, healthy love that will serve as your North Star for the duration of the course and beyond. You discover yourself as the source of your disappointing experiences in love thus far.

You will see that patterns in love have been happening through you rather than just to you, you awaken to the power you hold to create a new story in love.

 

Step Two: Completing the Past

In Step Two, you clear away your inner obstacles to love that have to do with the unfinished business of your past – including toxic relational dynamics, old agreements that no longer serve you and resentments that have been weighing you down.

To create the unprecedented and unpredictable experience of happy, healthy love, you need all of your energies aligned with this future.

 

Step Three: Healing Core Wounds

In Step Three, you will identify your “Love Identity” core beliefs, and begin to see the subtle ways you have been relating that have unconsciously been causing you to validate these beliefs over and over again.

You will challenge those false beliefs and awaken to the truth of your worthiness to love and be loved. You will identity new ways of relating that will create a happier, healthier story in love.

 

Step Four: Setting Your Course

In Step Four, you are finally free from your inner obstacles to love and available to create the relationship of your dreams.

To this aim, you will revisit and up level your intention to reflect what you now can see is truly possible for you to have. You will begin deepening into your vision of love fulfilled.

 

Step Five: First Things First

In Step Five, you will awaken to a deeper level of self-love as the foundation for loving another.

You will make a commitment to love and honor yourself as part of readying yourself to receive a commitment from your beloved. You will also discover why keeping your first attention on yourself will actually increase your chances for happy, healthy love.

 

Step Six: A Life Worth Living

In Step Six, you will cultivate a greater sense of happiness in your life as the foundation for creating a happy, healthy loving relationship.

You will continue aligning your life with the future you are committed to creating, and transform any core beliefs you may still have about others that are getting in the way

 

Step Seven: Living Love Fulfilled

In Step Seven, you will learn to become unstoppable on your journey to love.

You will begin relating to all obstacles, setbacks, disappointments and delays as opportunities to grow into a more mature, integrated and powerfully loving version of yourself.

 

I am a certified Calling in the One Coach. Calling in “The One”™ and Conscious Uncoupling™ coaching processes were created and are owned by New York Times Best Selling author, Katherine Woodward Thomas.

Let’s move Past the Blocks Keeping You From the Intimate Supportive Relationship You Desire

Let’s move Past the Blocks Keeping You
From the Intimate Supportive Relationship
You Desire

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